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Cheat the Holliday Prep

Cheat the Holliday Prep

Every year, we promise ourselves that THIS will be the year we simplify the holidays. The one where the cookies are baked early, the gifts are wrapped with care, and the mood stays merry and bright. And then December happens. Suddenly, we’re knee-deep in wrapping paper with no tape in sight, we’ve lost all but one guest towel, and we watch our To-Do List expand at a furious pace in the days before the festivities begin.

This year, let’s do things differently. Let’s cheat.

This year, think about what parts of the holidays you love and what parts you can jettison, what menu items you can buy and what you’d rather make from scratch, what tasks you can delegate to others and what you have to do yourself, and what you can do in advance and what must wait until the last minute.

Cheating the holidays is about reclaiming your time, energy, and joy. It’s about focusing on what truly matters and letting go of the rest.

Cheat the Prep

The secret to a smoother holiday season? Do yourself a few favors before the chaos hits. A little preparation now saves you from the last-minute scramble later.

  • Set it and forget it: You can set the table a week in advance (although if you have pets, you might want to keep the dishes upside down until the big day gets closer!)
  • Round it up: Don’t wait until the night before to locate all of your hosting bits and pieces. You can match and wash linens, polish silver, count water glasses, and round up all of the serving utensils weeks in advance.
  • Decide then duplicate: Choose a lovely gift for teachers, neighbors, or hosts this season, wrap several, and keep a stash ready to go.
  • Pick a go-to appetizer: Find one dish that always delights and keep the ingredients on hand. You can quickly whip it up to bring to work events, potlucks, or neighborhood get-togethers.
  • Take photos of your decor: Snap photos of your mantel, tree, or front door so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel each year.
  • Keep a "holiday basics" list: We like to keep a running list on our phone so that nothing crucial slips our mind, like foil pans, paper towels, and as much butter as possible.
  • Get your kitchen ready: There are so many things you can do in advance to help prepare every part of your kitchen for holiday cooking. Revisit our kitchen organization blog for some of our favorite strategies.
  • Stock a gift wrapping crate: Load up a crate with wrapping paper, tissue, gift bags, tape, scissors, tags, ribbons, and bows. Every minute spent putting this crate together will save you oodles of time later!
  • Declutter before you decorate: Make space for the sparkle instead of layering tinsel on top of clutter.
  • Skip unnecessary cleaning: When was the last time you invited a dinner guest into your basement storage room or your bedroom closet? Focus your energy on areas where your guests will actually be!

Cheat in the Kitchen

You don’t have to cook like you’re on a Food Network special for your holiday to be meaningful. Give yourself permission to simplify, outsource, or just plain cheat a little. No one is going to love you less if your mashed potatoes came from the deli or your cookies started life in the freezer aisle!

  • Share the cooking: Choose one or two signature dishes to make and then delegate the rest. Most people are thrilled to contribute to a holiday meal!
  • Buy pre-cut cookie dough, gingerbread kits, and ready-made pie crusts: You can focus more on the fun part and less on the technical details. We can state with absolute authority that children care more about the color of the sprinkles than whether the cookies were made from scratch.
  • Keep "emergency appetizers" stocked: Whether it’s a Costco-size box of frozen mini quiches, a tub of pimento cheese and a box of the fancy crackers, or some golden goodness you can quickly toss in the airfryer, having emergency apps on hand is a lifesaver. They are perfect for when you run low on food at a party, have people stop by unexpectedly, or you get a last-minute invitation to an event.
  • Decorate with food: Putting peppermints in jars, oranges and cloves in a vase, or cranberries and greenery around serving trays are simple but lovely ways to add some holiday spirit to your table.
  • Take it down a notch: Make the pie weeks in advance and then freeze it. Or buy the pie crust and make the filling yourself. Or buy the whole darn pie. Or ask your cousin to bring it! You don’t have to do it all.
  • Consider disposable plates: Before you immediately reject this bullet point, remember that disposable plates come in all levels of fanciness and price points … and they all save you from mountains of dishes. Just think about it. You don’t have to commit this year.

Cheat Expectations

The holidays aren’t a performance. They are a gathering of people who love each other, even when things get messy. Imperfect meals are still nourishing, and imperfect joy is still joy.

  • Let "good enough" be great: The napkins do not have to match the table runner. The cookies do not have to look like the photo.
  • Let go of tired traditions: Not every tradition needs to be sustained, so you can keep the ones that fill you up and let go of the ones that drain you.
  • Say YES to help: You do not have to run the whole holiday show yourself. Be open to offers for help (and even to hiring some!).
  • Give jobs to guests: Let the kids set the table or roll the crescent rolls. Ask your uncle to be in charge of answering the door and hanging up coats. People love to be involved in creating the celebration together.
  • Focus on connection over perfection: People remember laughter and stories, not whether the napkins match or the lattice on the apple pie is perfectly golden.
  • Simplify greeting cards: Maybe you can skip sending Christmas cards this year. Or if you do, send a postcard instead of one that needs an envelope. And maybe send New Year’s greetings instead so that you have more time!
  • Streamline your wrapping: Use gift bags instead of wrapping paper and ribbons. Or if you prefer using wrapping paper, consider writing the names directly on the packages in a festive paint pen instead of dealing with tags that often get separated from their packages.

The holidays are for connection, not exhaustion. You have our permission to buy the pie, delegate the side dishes, and use the pretty paper plates. You deserve a joyful season that feels doable, not depleting.

If you need a hand getting your home holiday-ready, call in the Bees. We’ll help you find calm, clarity, and cheer in every corner of your home!