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How to Teach Kids to Bee Organized: 4 Little Habits with a Big Impact
Organization is not a personality trait that kids are born with. It’s a skill! And like any skill, it can be taught, practiced, and improved over time. The goal is not to raise mini-perfectionists who keep their socks color-coded. It’s to raise capable humans who know how to manage their belongings and their time in a way that works for them. We regularly get asked how to help kids get (and stay!) organized, so we’ve rounded up our best ideas for developing life-long organizational skills in children of all ages. 1. Start with Systems Kids Can Actually Use If the system you are developing for teaching your kids to organize only works when YOU are involved, it’s not a system that your kids can maintain. We suggest involving kids in creating the organizing systems in the first place. Let them help choose bins, decide where things should live, and make the labels. The more ownership they have, the more likely they are to follow through. If you want kids to be able to put things “away” by themselves, everything needs to have an “away.” Every single item (or category of items) needs a home. And we cannot overstate how important it is to label your storage system in a way that makes sense for your age of kids. For example, labels for the youngest kids should use pictures in addition to words so that everyone can easily figure out what goes where. Make sure the system you design is simple and accessible. Kids need to be able to reach and maneuver bins by themselves. For younger children, use open bins that they can toss toys into without needing to fuss with hard-to-manage lids. Place hooks down low enough for kids to hang up their own jackets, backpacks, robes, and bath towels. And remember—, an organizing system that actually works for your kids might not be perfect or beautiful, and that’s okay. 2. Teach the Process Telling a kid to “clean your room” is a bit like telling someone to “get organized.” It can be absolutely overwhelming unless they have the ability to break big jobs down into manageable tasks. Help kids look at a larger project and think through all the steps along the way. For example, for tidying a room, we love the Five Things method. Encourage your kids to: Collect all trash/recycling from the room Take away all dirty dishes Pick up all laundry Put away things that have a home Deal with the stuff that doesn’t have a home Developing and teaching your kids organizing processes for cleaning out their backpacks, organizing their desk, or preparing their lunch box can help them build their self-sufficiency skills. 3. Make Routines Work for You One of the best ways for how to get kids to organize is to help them establish and maintain consistent routines. Children absolutely thrive with clear routines, as routines help kids feel safe, build independence, and reduce power struggles. Setting up clear morning and evening routines can be so empowering for kids. Establishing norms that everyone in the family follows can help tame the chaos too. For example: We always put away one activity before we start the next. We always pack lunches and backpacks the night before. We spend 5 minutes resetting our bedroom each night. Our whole family takes part in a Weekly Reset every Sunday. We find checklists to be so useful when helping kids think through routines. Work with your kid to write a checklist for dailiy/weekly chores, their bedtime routine, packing their lunch or backpack, or any other predictable event. You can also establish routines that help kids understand and manage their time. Tracking deadlines, assignments, practices or rehearsals, competitions, and more is such an important skill to master! Depending on their age, a dry-erase weekly or monthly calendar on their wall, a spiral-bound day planner, or Google calendar on their phone can all work well. The ability to project themselves into their future is an incredible life skill that will benefit them their whole lives. For example, realizing that a Thursday evening event means they’d better start their Friday assignment early can prevent buckets of stress. Some of us grown-ups are still learning to care for our future selves, but the next generation can do better in implementing strategies for organizing their time and task list! 4. Coach, Don’t Control! This might be our hardest piece of advice. If you value having an organized home, it’s very tempting to step in, take over, and just do it yourself. It’s certainly faster and easier, but it’s not helping in the long run! Your role is not to be the manager of everyone else’s stuff. It’s to be a coach and a cheerleader. That might look like asking your middle schooler what they need for practice, rather than telling them what they need to bring. It might look like allowing mistakes to happen, because that’s how we learn. We need to let go of the idea that perfection is the only thing worth celebrating and that every kid’s space has to be organized the same way. Part of this process is regularly clearing out the clutter together since kids outgrow clothes, toys, and interests very quickly. Normalizing the process of saying goodbye to things that no longer serve you can help prevent kid clutter from building up. Teaching kids to be organized isn’t just about having a less cluttered house … although that is a pretty great benefit! Helping your kids develop organizational skills will help reduce stress and last-minute scrambles, build independence and confidence, and create more time and space for the activities you love to do together. If your home is feeling a little too chaotic right now, you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. As professional home organizers, the Bees are always here to help create systems that work for your whole family, including your kiddos!
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Sentimental Decluttering: Keepsakes and Trophies and Art … Oh My!
Every May, households across the country are inundated with stacks of worksheets, dioramas, self-portraits, participation certificates, and a million other items that kids of all ages produce throughout their school year. If you find it overwhelming, you are in good company! This is the season of milestones, and every milestone (even just moving from second to third grade) comes with the pressure to save everything. We feel this deep, internal need to document every spark of genius or athletic prowess, often because we’re afraid that if we toss the paper, we’re tossing the memory. Let us remind you that memories live in your heart and mind, not in a box! Keepsakes are a wonderful way to reconnect with those memories—but only if you are keeping what matters instead of everything you’ve ever smiled at. Why Keepsakes Are a Family Sticking Point Why is it so hard to throw away a pinch-pot that your kid doesn’t remember making and doesn’t want to keep? And why does there seem to be a force field around the recycle bin when you try to toss a stack of scribbles from when your youngest was learning to hold a marker? In most cases, one or more emotions stand in the way. It’s normal to feel nostalgic when you see items from your children’s early years … and it can also be normal to have that wistful sense of missing the younger and snugglier versions of your beloved humans. Some of the clients we work with even talk about a feeling of grief or loss when sorting through items from their kids’ childhood. In other cases, we keep things because we want to “legitimize” our kids’ hard work (or the fact that we were fascinating humans before we became parents!). We imagine a future biographer or grandchild marveling over a program listing a choir solo in 6th grade. These complicated feelings are part of why we end up just keeping everything. We aren’t sure what will matter to our kids (or ourselves) after years or decades pass. The problem is that when you keep everything, it stops being treasure and becomes meaningless. It’s just one more crate to haul around and take up space. Reframing Your Thinking: The Who and Why Test for Organizing Sentimental Items Before you add another stack of graded spelling tests into a crate, asking yourself a couple of key questions can help you gain some clarity. First, ask yourself who you are keeping the item for. If that crayon family portrait makes your heart swell every time you see it, it’s a parent keepsake. Save it with your treasures. If it’s a varsity letter, diploma, or something that you imagine will travel with your child into their future, save it with their treasures. The second question to ask yourself is why you are keeping the item. We often see our clients keep an item only because of its age or they remember where they got it, not because it’s meaningful or valuable. Keeping a stuffed animal from your childhood even though you never liked it is not a good use of your space! Practical Strategies for Decluttering Sentimental Items at Every Age As our kids grow, the nature of what they bring home evolves from messy finger paintings to stackable academic achievements, and our systems need to grow right along with them. The Early Years: The Art Avalanche Toddlers and preschoolers are prolific artists. If you kept every “About Me” board, macaroni necklace, and crayon doodle, you’d need a warehouse! Here are a few keepsake decluttering tips for reducing the chaos at this stage: Create a holding tank for keepsakes (such as a pretty basket or crate under the bed) to delay your decision-making. You don’t need to decide the fate of a painting the moment it is handed to you. It’s okay to wait a few weeks or months until the initial excitement fades, and then you can more objectively decide whether to keep it or toss it. For 3D projects like cardboard castles and mobiles made of recycled items, snap a photo of your kid holding their creation. That photo will help you capture the creativity without collecting the dust. Use your refrigerator as a temporary gallery and follow the one-in, one-out rule. Every time a new piece of art comes home, it replaces the old one. The retired piece can be recycled, dropped in your holding tank for a later decision, or tucked into an envelope to be mailed to a lucky grandparent! The Elementary Years: The Achievement Era This is the age of participation certificates, spelling bees, and “Student of the Month” ribbons. Here are a couple of keepsake decluttering strategies to get you through it: Give each kid a sturdy crate for their elementary archive. By limiting the physical space from the start, you are naturally helping your kid keep their favorite things from each grade level, rather than everything they bring home. Some of our Bees swear by using one folder per grade level to keep it even simpler! At the end of every school year, look through the crate with your child, adding the most important pieces from this year and weeding out a few things from prior years that no longer feel relevant. This is not only a fun time to reminisce together, but also helps teach the valuable life skill of curating what you keep. The Teenage Years: High School and Graduation Between band programs, softball rosters, and prom tickets, the paper trail becomes a mountain! We have a couple of things to try: Milestone events like graduation creates a massive influx of cards, Class of 2026 decorations, and other related items all at once. Put everything in a graduation holding box for a couple of months, and then once the emotional high of the ceremony has settled, you and your new grad will be in a better position to decide what’s worth long-term storage. As they approach adulthood, start helping your kid move official documents like a diploma, social security card, or passport into a fireproof and waterproof safe. These are the documents that they will need for the rest of their lives! Twenty-Somethings and Beyond: The Hand-Off Whether they go to college, start their professional lives, or move into their first apartment, there comes a time when the collections need to face their owner: Once your child has settled into their own home, it’s time for the great hand-off! Bring out those bins and help them decide what they actually want to move with them into the next chapter of their lives. Encourage them to photograph and digitize papers and other items that they want a record of without using space for the physical item. A cloud-based folder for “grade school memorabilia” is much easier to move from apartment to apartment than five heavy-duty crates of old notebooks and trophies. The secret to preventing a keepsake pile-up is regular organizing and editing. Just because something goes into the keepsake box doesn’t mean it has a lifetime lease! Make sure you check your bins periodically, because as your kids grow, you’ll find it easier to let go of the “good” to make room for the “great.” If you’re staring at a mountain of school year leftovers and feeling overwhelmed, don’t forget that you can give the Bees a buzz! We can help you sort through the sentimental layers, design a sustainable system for everyone’s keepsakes, and clear out the clutter so that you can focus on making new memories.
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From Piles of Paper to Peace of Mind: How to Organize the Paperwork in Your Life
You walk into your home and drop the stack of mail on the kitchen counter, along with an ad that a solicitor stuck in your door. Your teenager is just finishing “cleaning out their backpack,” which means a whirlwind of flyers, graded assignments, and miscellaneous scraps now rest on the dining room table. Your youngest hands you a pile of this week’s drawings and doodles from her after-school program. Your spouse is unboxing a new kitchen gadget and leaves behind the manual, the receipt, and a few brightly colored “read this first” sheets. And just like that, you’ve got an entire mountain of paper to deal with. Again! When we work with families and business owners across the country on organizing projects, we regularly come face to face with these avalanches of paper. It’s one of the most common sources of stress because paper represents “To Dos” that haven’t been done, there’s so much uncertainty about what to keep, and more paper enters our lives every single day … even in this so-called digital age. Follow our steps for organizing important paperwork below to help you find your way back to a clear countertop! Step 1: Purge and Sort Any paperwork organization project with a hope for lasting survival must start with a Power Purge. Don’t waste your time creating storage solutions for items that you don’t need or want to keep! As we purge, we find it helpful to categorize papers into these four groups: The Keep Forever Papers These are the most important papers that you’ll carry with you throughout your life. Keep the physical, original versions in a waterproof and fireproof safe or a safe deposit box at the bank. Keep copies of all of these documents in a 3-ring binder with sleeves or an accordion folder for easy access. Birth, marriage, and death certificates Social security cards Passports (keep these accessible but secure!) Adoption records Military records Wills, living wills, and powers of attorney Property deeds Retirement/Pension documents The Rotation Papers These are the documents that you need for a season or a few years, but not for a lifetime. This includes insurance policies, retirement account quarterly statements, tax documents from previous years, receipts for major purchases, mortgage and bank information, vehicle titles, etc. Again, an accordion file, a 3-ring binder, or a dedicated file drawer are the perfect storage spaces for these types of paper. When an updated document arrives, you can add it to the front of its section and shred the oldest version in the back. If you need a reminder on how long you need to keep various types of items, check out our handy guide! The Precious Memories This category includes kids’ artwork, school projects, greeting cards, photos, event programs, and other memorabilia papers that feel too emotional to toss. Find ways to display some of your absolute favorites, take photos of others and then toss, and store the rest in keepsake bins. The Action Stack You need to establish a single, designated spot for papers that still need attention. This is where you put the wedding RSVP, the bill you need to pay, the car registration you need to mail, the statement you need to file, and the permission slip you need to sign. Perhaps it’s a functional tray on your office desk, a basket that you can move around with you, or a red folder or envelope that is hard to misplace. Kate Moore (Bee Organized West St. Louis) advises, “Set aside a time to handle these items weekly. Put it in the calendar!” By making the emptying of the Action Stack part of your Weekly Reset, you can prevent the paper pileup from beginning. Step 2: Stop Paper at the Source To truly manage your paperwork problem, you’ve got to stop it from landing on your countertops in the first place. We find in our professional document organizing work that the majority of household paper comes from just a few predictable sources. The Mail The USPS found in a recent study that each home receives an average of 700 pieces of mail per year, and more than half of it is junk mail! Here are our best tips for nipping it in the bud: Sort your mail over your recycle bin. Toss out everything you can and put the papers you must deal with in your Action Stack. Kate Roberts (Bee Organized Boston) gives her clients a Guard Your ID roller stamp that scrambles personal information. That way, you don’t need to set aside items to shred. Unsubscribe your address from catalog mailing lists. CatalogChoice.com is a nonprofit that helps folks unsubscribe from mailing lists. Just make a stack of the offending catalogs for a month, then spend a few minutes on the website removing yourself from their lists forever! Go paperless whenever you are invited to do so by banks, utilities, the DMV, medical practices, and more. Backpacks Kids (and adults!) bring home an astonishing number of miscellaneous papers each week in their backpacks, totebags, pockets, and laptop bags. Managing the chaos proactively will prevent those papers from stacking up and attracting more papers! We advise our clients to: Empty backpacks and work bags next to the recycling bin as soon as you get home. Toss anything you can before it has the chance to look around your house for a place to linger for weeks. Put anything that must be handled into your Action Stack. Encourage the person who brought the papers into the home to help create a system for where their papers should go. (Shall we hang up every day’s art on the fridge and pick our favorites to keep each week? Should we put a storage bin under your bed for graded assignments or notes from friends? Should we repurpose a cute basket for you to toss all your job, volunteer, or hobby-related papers in when you get home?) New Purchases Any time you buy a new item, it comes with a whole set of papers that seem too important to toss. But are they really? If something were to go wrong with your appliance or you needed to know how to replace the lightbulb, would you dig out the manual … or would you hop onto Google? For major purchases, file the receipt in your Rotation Papers and recycle the rest. We know that paperwork is one of the most challenging categories to tackle because it requires constant diligence! If you are one of our Just-in-Casers who wants to hold on to every scrap, ask yourself how hard it would be to replace. In our digital world, bank statements, utility records, and medical receipts can be easily accessed through secure portals. Christina Kjar (Bee Organized Northwest Austin) recommends converting as much as possible to digital: “Having an electronic filing system for paperwork eliminates the need to store the physical paper. Once you scan it and save it in a secure location, you don’t need to worry about losing it.” Putting these systems into place (and managing what enters your home) is the only way out of the paper avalanche. And if your paper pile becomes a mountain you can’t climb, remember that you can call in the Bees! We can help you sort through the backlog and set up sustainable systems that work for everyone.
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